Domestic violence is often more than just physical abuse. It encompasses sexual, emotional, economic and psychological violence. Initially, identifying the signs of an abusive relationship can be difficult, especially if the abuser uses subtle tactics to gain power and control. It is very common for survivors to recognize the beginning of the abuse as the first time the abusers hit them, but really the cycle of violence may have started early on in the relationship. Perpetrators tend to be charming and very convincing when exerting power and control tactics. However, understanding common occurrences or patterns in an unhealthy relationship and being able to begin an informed conversation is a major step to healing and helping others to join in understanding why and how domestic violence occurs.
Common signs of an abusive relationship are if one or both partners:
Prevents contact and communication with friends and family
Controls money and important identification, such as driver’s licenses and passports
Causes embarrassment with bad names and put-downs
Critical about survivors appearance and/or behavior
Attempts to control what partner wears
Has unrealistic expectations, like partner being available at all times
Threatens to take away or hurt the children
Acts like abuse is not a big deal, or denies it’s happening
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